The horse is prepared for the day of battle, but victory comes from the Lord. Proverbs 21:31.
There are certain things that only happen with time we will know why it happened. During the period of tribulation, of struggles, the best we can do is seek God as never before. Take advantage of these moments of wilderness moments when you find yourself alone and seek God with all your heart because He is the one who searches our hearts, He is the only one, depending on your trouble, you know the whole truth. And God allows trials in life there are those who are His. How so? It's simple, and receive a blessing if it is prepared to receive it.
Only those who are His will be able to go through tribulations, struggles, problems and situations that will have to prove whether or not of God. All chosen by God, now, will pass and so this is normal. But it is only normal for the chosen who know. Enjoy this moment and be closer to God, take that right now you're getting experience, spiritual maturity, and surrender to the Lord even more.
To you, the most important is his soul. Ever thought that He gave us everything we ask. would be happy because he never denies the request of the fair. Everyone who asks receives, it is written, but only that, he first turns his chosen not to lose and not lose it. When we win a soul to the Lord, He cleanses us, cleanses us so that we will give more fruit.
I know that you discourage people for one reason or another. That's why we go through certain situations to not give up. God knows that we gained experience, we need to be transformed to a certain stage of our lives. See it as if it were a step up there and is His blessing. To get there we must rise. And every step we are getting closer to the blessing. But we must rise and the rise is the sacrifice and the blessing is the victory. There are people who give up and it does not please God.
It's much better to please God than to the world. And who pleases God and wins salvation who pleases the world does not see the glory of God.
Stay strong with the Lord.