For thy Maker is thine husband: the Lord of hosts is his name, and the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; it is called the God of the whole earth. Isaiah 54:5.
Many do not understand God's purposes when we decided to seek God, it is because we were already at rock bottom, we had no way out. Others were looking for several resources until they saw before the Lord, He is the Way, the Truth and the Life.
When we marry, we become one flesh with our half. When married with God, we become one with the Creator. So, first is the Lord Jesus and then the feeling life. We do not know who will be the person who will be on our side forever, you need the guidance of the Holy Esírito for it.
Finding the right person is not easy, since many may seem to God but unfortunately are not. You must be Born of God, and yet, watch and let God show you who is the man or the woman he chose.
If you have the character of God, is talented, always trying to walk in the ways of the Lord is already a step to find the man or woman of God. But that alone is not enough, you must be from God as well. And deliver your anxiety in His Hands. Let your heart only to the Lord Jesus and let Him do the rest.
Stay strong with God.