There shalt seek the Lord your God, and shall find, when we seek with all your heart and with all thy soul. Deuteronomy 4:29.
Open your heart to the Lord. Not that He does not know what is going on with you, but He wants to hear from you their troubles and their needs. Many seek a friend to vent but they forget that the Lord is our friend. The time lost looking for a neighbor, a boyfriend or a friend work to vent, seek God. Yes he wants to hear.
What good is talk of their problems to others, they will solve them? Talk to anyone who is there by your side, hoping that you can recognize it as his only Lord. The only thing you have to do is bend your knees and pray. Prayer is not difficult. Prayer is saying what happens to you, you're saying in your heart, put it before Him who loves you in front of him who expects you to trust Him, to open your heart.
Many indulge in after the boys leave. You make promises, and some time later end up with children and bitter because they lost much of their lives caring for their children alone. Trusting people who go back is very bad. We only give our hearts to the Lord. Only then will not have deception and will not suffer more because God loves us so much that He gave His only begotten Son to die for our sins.
Do not let anyone harm you, open your heart and handed to the Lord, He wants to hear, let no one doubt put it. He alone is the Only Way, the Truth and the Life. Give your heart to the Lord, wait on Him for your reply, and in His time, everything becomes new. For the Glory of God.
Stay strong with God.