The Lord redeems the soul of His servants who trust in Him and none will be condemned. Psalm 34:22.
All who have placed complete trust in the God of Israel, are on the edge of doom. How so? Accounts come every month, problems arise every day, buses that break and you get late at work or some compromise, bottling, at last, and by no means let the Lord Jesus. Those born of God win. Do not be disturbed by the problems. They do not brood and angry with adversity.
People born of God lay their anxieties in the Hands of the Lord, people are quiet because they know the Lord. Therefore there is no need to despair, God is in control.
Desperate people end up taking desperate measures and put everything to lose. This applies to marriage too. afraid to be alone, men and women marry the first that appears, do not even know the right guy, decides to marry or live together and come home repentant mother with kids and full of problems. All because I did not want to lose the boy. And with some boys too. They marry, depending on age, dropping out because he has to sustain him, the woman and children. Later, it's each to one side.
Prior to relate to someone, first seek the Lord Jesus. Look for the new birth, seek the Holy Spirit and then yes, wait on God, man or woman of God that He has prepared for you. It's no use wanting someone that God does not want. Even if you gave your life to the Lord, let Him do the rest. He knows all things. He does not make anyone suffer. People suffering is not because the sought with all my heart. Think about it.
Stay with God.