Now abideth faith, hope, love, these three: but the greatest of these is love. I Corinthians 13:13.
To love and be loved. Few have that privilege. But because few, if love was made for everyone. When we give when we do our will to do the will of another, God sees our sacrifice. We give without expecting anything in return. When you watch a football game because he asked, you are giving your desire not to attend to attend to him. This is to give, without thought of receiving anything in return.
With that, you ask him to watch a movie romance. He will give in because you gave in first. This is using wisdom, without discussion. You must have patience of both parties. Both for those who are married, and for those who are dating. Patience is one of the virtues that we all have.
Marriage is the union of two completely different people who only get to know after marriage. When you're dating, right nninguém known only after marriage is that the differences appear and it takes patience to deal with it.
To make the marriage a blessing, only one way: The Seal. But what is it? When man and woman of God are born of God and has the seal of the Holy Spirit is He who guides them, guides them, gives wisdom, instructs, in short, puts on us the virtues that were single when they had not. Couples with the Holy Spirit, they also have problems, but the difference is who can go through various situations and remain stronger every day.
So God gives much importance to marriage. And you want us to take marriage seriously. When you're single, cudamos of our spiritual life, work at work, in short, we serve the Lord and take care. Once married, they do almost the same thing, but it adds to both the woman's life as the man who is on your side. Before it was just one. Once married, it becomes two. And when a marriage that is God, there are struggles, but wins.
Who is not, prepare yourself for when it comes, and who married and made a bad marriage, pray to the Lord, ask God to transform her husband by putting him the Character of God and not give up, God is with us.
Stay strong with God.